Balancing Your Wellness Circle

Four years ago, my burnout at work had reachedpondering, I became convinced that if I could
the point of crisis. I knew what it was like to bediscover how to stay spiritually connected and in
enthusiastic and warm and positive, but I found itbalance with the whole of life my burnout would
impossible to summon up those feelings that haddissolve.
come so easily in the past. The nurses and otherThe Native American concept of wellness led me
doctors noticed that I was no longer the same Dr.to a solution to my struggle with burnout. In the
Shelton they thought they knew.Native American understanding, you are well when
One morning, the psychologist in charge of ourall aspects of your life are in balance and in
mental health branch called me up and asked if Iharmony. There is a sense of inner peace and
would be willing to visit Doby, the traditional healer.wholeness. It is more than the absence of
I reluctantly agreed, because I knew thedisease, or enjoying good health. You thus might
psychologist cared about me.be well while living with a chronic illness. This kind
I felt awkward, though, and I didn't really expectof wellness is reflected in behaviors and attitudes;
the healer to be able to help me. How would hehow you respond to situations, problems, or
understand when I couldn't even explain what waspeople. Wellness means having a sense of poise
going on with me? My hesitancy was complicatedand serenity that allows you to respond creatively
by the fact that I was the medical director at aand responsibly in a crisis.
clinical center created for the purpose of helpingHow do we improve on our state of wellness? In
and treating the Native People. I wasn't supposedthe Native community where I work every day, I
to become one of their patients!hear constant references to "the wellness
At the mental health building I was greeted bycircle." The circle is an important sacred
Doby, a short, thick, elderly native man with asymbol for Native Americans. It represents the
white crew cut, dressed in a Pendleton vest andcycles of life, the four seasons, the four
blue jeans. In the corner sat a middle-aged mandirections, the heavens, Mother Earth, and the
with a drum who, I learned later, was the his son.universe. It represents a holistic symbol of
We sat down at a small table in the center of thephysical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health in
room.its broadest sense, revealing the parts of human
"So, what's going on?" he said.nature that must be nourished to bring a person
I started with, "Well, it's getting harder and harderto wholeness.
for me to come to work."The Native American wellness circle describes
He put up his hand abruptly, signaling for me tofour aspects or dimensions of life: physical (what
stop. He told me a story about the time of hisone does), mental (what one thinks), emotional
father's death. The healer didn't want or need to(what one feels), and spiritual (what one believes).
hear any more about my problem. I was a littleWhen all four dimensions of life are in balance and
troubled by this. I didn't see how this ramblingfunctioning at an optimum level, a person is
story about his father was going to help.considered to be physically fit, mentally stimulated,
Finally the healer completed his story and said,emotionally adjusted, and spiritually connected. To
"Okay, I'll see what I can do." He camebe well, then, means to have vitality in each part
over to me. Placing his hands over my head, heof life, and to have all of these parts in relative
began to sing a native song. I felt respectful,balance.
present, and open, but to be honest, I didn'tBurnout is caused, in part, by living a life out of
expect anything beneficial to come of this. Dobybalance. Thus, burnout can be addressed from
sang for another five minutes or so, and then heany of these four aspects with the intention of
was done.regaining balance. Many of us have learned how to
He announced, "Your spirit had left you, and I putfocus on the physical dimension. Or, we might
it back." I was astounded. What sort ofattend to the mental aspect of life by entering
thing was that to say? I felt no different. I almostcognitive therapy and rethinking some of our
laughed, but I didn't want to offend this kind man.approaches and attitudes. Concentrating on the
After all, he was only trying to help me.emotional aspect, we could look to relationships
I thanked him and left. What an interestingfor support and perhaps start writing in a journal
experience, I thought. As I began seeing patients,to better understand our feelings. However, the
my skepticism and amusement quickly turned toaspect most neglected, the one most seriously
marvel. I was back! I was able to address eachout of balance and in need of recovery in our
patient and problem with the natural sense ofbusy, modern world is that of the spirit. It is the
compassion and creativity I had known before. Atkey component of the wellness circle. Traditionally,
the end of the day, I was still energized. I feltthe spiritual aspect is considered the foundation or
wonderful!essence of life. I had worked on all of the other
Unfortunately, over the next few weeks I beganareas in my life, yet I still was unable to break out
to feel less energetic and increasingly irritable. Iof my burnout until the traditional healer "replaced
knew I couldn't keep seeing the traditional healermy spirit." It was at this point that I
over and over. I needed to find some way torealized that if I could nourish and develop this
nourish and develop my spirituality. After mucharea of myself, I could be truly well.